How to Enjoy Girls Bars and How They Differ from Hostess Clubs

What is a girls bar? How is it different from a hostess club?

Although you might think girls bars and hostess clubs are the same, the two types of establishments differ in the style of service as well as customer types.

 

▶Drinking with young girls

At girls bars, you drink the beverages prepared by female employees who you can interact with through activities like playing darts and singing karaoke together. Even if you're shy, especially if you visit for the first time, those games can help bring you closer to the girls.

 

▶Service style and hours differ from hostess clubs

One of the biggest features that sets girls bars from hostess clubs is that you interact with the girls across the counter, not by sitting next to each other. This is because activities that involve repeatedly providing services to the same group of customers, like sitting close and talking one-on-one as well as singing as a duet, are restricted at girls bars. Another difference is that girls bars are open until early morning or even for 24 hours. This is because the business hours aren't restricted, as opposed to hostess clubs that close at 0 a.m. or 1 a.m. For this reason, it isn't uncommon for customers to visit both types of establishments in one night.

 

▶Customers tend to be young as well

Customers at girls bars tend to be younger, usually in their 20s to 30s, compared to other nightlife establishments. You may even see students and girls going in because girls bars can be a affordable leisure. The age of female staff ranges from 18 to early 20s. As some of them may be beginners in the industry, this can help some customers feel more comfortable.

 

▶It's fun even if you come alone

There is no need to worry about going to a girls bar alone because that's how most customers spend their time. Just be sure to make a reservation if you can to avoid not entering the place when it's crowded.

How much will I be paying at a girls bar?

Knowing how much to spend can further help you get comfortable going to one. Go over the details below so you can get a budget.

 

▶5,000 - 10,000 yen on average

5,000 to 10,000 yen will be enough to have a decent experience and cover the following fees:

▶Set fee

You will pay for the set fee no matter which girls bar you decide to go to. While it's common for the set fee to include both the table charge and an all-you-can-drink option, some locations may charge you for beverages separately, and you will be required to order at least one drink.  

 

 

▶Drinks for girls

Be prepared to buy the girl a drink, especially if she's your favorite. Drinks for the girls are usually 700 to 1,000 yen per glass, and champagnes cost around 5,000 to 20,000 yen. Champagnes are a perfect drink to order for special occasions like the girl's birthday and Christmas. The decision to buy drinks for girls is optional, but you will be expected to pay since it's an unspoken rule.

 

▶Services fee, games, etc.

You will also pay for the service fee and maybe some games if you wish. The service fee is about 10% to 20% of the total payment, and games like darts are about 100 to 300 yen per game. You can also pay for an extension if you want to stay longer than the time indicated for the set fee.

Five tips on having fun at a girls bar

Here are five great tips on getting the best out of your time:

▶1. Get along with all the girls

Once again, girls bars don't provide services one-on-one. This means you may not be able to talk with your favorite employee for a long time if she is called by another customer. But this also gives you the chance to start a conversation with a different girl, the manager, and other visitors. This way, you will have way more fun even if the bar gets busy.

 

▶2. Become a regular

You will have an even greater time if you become a regular. This way, you can skip breaking the ice and become close with the girls, even leading to deep conversations. You might even get some nice benefits like discounts if they remember you, or get celebrated on your birthday. Becoming a regular customer brings so many benefits, so try finding the perfect girls bar for you.

 

▶3. Be a gentleman and don't drink too much

Be careful not to ruin the trust you build with the girls with rude behavior. It isn't uncommon for some customers to get hated by not just the girls but also other customers, which can result in getting banned in the worst case. Some of those behaviors include:

In other words, be a gentleman if you want to develop a good relationship with them.

 

▶4. Do not use your phone

Using your phone will only make the girls feel awkward because they won't know how to spend time with you. Enjoy some fun activities together like darts and karaoke instead if you feel nervous or can't come up with a topic.

 

▶5. Find several bars you like

It's highly recommended to be a regular at more than one bar in case your favorite spot is closed or crowded. Take it easy first by visiting one place, then move on to find more places.

How to find the perfect girls bar for you

Having fun is one thing, but knowing how to find the perfect bar for you is another topic to discuss.

 

▶Explore the various themes

Each girls bar has a unique theme that shows in the ambience as well as the outfits worn by girls. While many locations have become maid-themed in recent years, there are other themes such as:

The types of girls also vary, such as cutesy, immature, and beauty types being some of the most prevalent ones. Researching the various themes of girls bars is another way to help you find the perfect spot for the right occasion, whether it's to just chill or go crazy.

 

▶Check reviews beforehand

Reading reviews is also a great way to determine whether or not the bar aligns with your interests, as they may be a reliable source of information. Going through reviews will give a clear picture of what it's like going to the places you find.

Summary

In conclusion, girls bars are the perfect venue to hang out and drink with young girls. You will be able to spend a decent time as long as you spare 5,000 to 10,000 yen. To further spice up the experience, don't feel shy to talk with both the female employees and other customers, and become a regular at several places. If you feel ready to explore the nightlife districts around you to find the perfect girls bar, make sure you utilize the club detail pages on YOASOBi CHOCOLAT.